Cheating is as old as man himself, in fact, it’s in the nature of man to try and cheat another just to have an advantage over that person. In relationships and marriages, most people believe that cheating is only reserved for the husbands and not the wives since they are hunters in nature. People tend to argue that wives have no reason whatsoever to cheat on their husbands. but this is totally wrong, Although research conducted over the past few years has it that men are likely to sleep with another person other than their spouse in marriage, that data has dropped over the years with the women almost on the same par with the male counterparts.
Real reasons why wives cheat on their husbands:
Even though it is very difficult to believe, the most loyal and trusted partner has 99% chance of cheating the partner, this is because infidelity has been communised in the society and so many things we do and see on daily basis unconsciously prepare our mind to cheat. Of course, cheating comes with negative circumstances and leaves grievous dents on the couples.
While you may have never cheated on your partner, even though you may have never experienced such a “nightmare” experience..nobody prays for such. It would be expedient to have the knowledge of why couples really cheat so that it can be prevented before it finally occurs.
After years of research and crafted experience from people, these are the real reasons why couples cheat:
1: The inability of couples to resolve issues among them within their marriage especially when it is not resolved in the early stages.It becomes like a wild fire that is difficult to quench. this can cause cheating as a partner might want to find solace in the arms of another.
2: The environment its self is full of vices that unconsciously program one to cheat; the way some ladies dress and act, the way the society sees cheating as a norm and the way the media champions structures that can make one think about tasting the cheat soup. these are things that lure an innocent partner into infidelity.
3: In the society today the quest to get material things and show off on social media are on another level, just like human needs, they are insatiable .relationships are no longer about love but about what people will gain from the next person and probably show off with it. Modern couples tend to do anything just to get money.
4: Many people walking along the road or at the mall tend not to have self-control over their sexual prowess and of course are willing to listen to any sexual advances made towards their direction. with the way some ladies dress these days with the quote “my dress my choice in mind”, it’s really difficult for one to guard the gate of his urge and say no to such temptation when it comes.
5: The feeling of boredom and incomplete can make some couple to cheat, especially when they feel their partner cannot satisfy all that need. they tend to go outside to get such completeness.