Do you feel like you’re just floating along in your life, with no clear direction or objective?
That’s exactly how I felt not too long ago, and it affected every aspect of my world: my career performance, my home life… everything.
One day, I decided enough was enough and sat down to make a life plan to give my ambitions a clear direction.
If you feel lost and you want to hone in on your true direction as well, then you need to get organized and make a life plan of your own. You can forget all the vague, gimmicky articles and Internet courses that pop up when you type “life plan” into Google. All you really need to do is follow these steps to guide you through the process from start to finish.
You are going to need some supplies
Buy a notebook, a planner that has daily/weekly/monthly pages, and a monthly calendar with large daily blocks that you can write in. Post your monthly calendar on your fridge, then put your notebook somewhere safe and keep your planner close by. You could make your life plan in your smart phone, too, but it’s much more effective to use old-fashioned pen and paper to get it done.
Get that brain working
Take out your notebook and make a list of the roles you play in your life as well as roles you would like to play. Some of the possibilities may be:
You get the idea.
Write them down, and then write out how you want others to remember you in each of those roles. Spend a good hour on this step. Flesh out everything you can think of and write it down. This will help you decide what your priorities are.
And I don’t just mean with money. I want you to open a fresh page of your notebook and write down a list of goals for your life. Use your list of roles to help you think of every goal that you have. You will be surprised at what you write when you think this way. Hopes and dreams that you didn’t even know you had will surface as you work through this step. Spend some serious time on this one as well.
Get ready to take action
Make 3 lists of action steps that you must take to achieve all of the goals you recorded on the previous page. You need a list for things to do now, one for 6 months from now, and a final list for long-term action steps. Refer to your goals page as you complete all three action step lists.
Record those action steps
Write all of the action steps from your “now” list in your planner. Write the steps from your “6 months from now” list on your fridge calendar. Every morning, refer to your planner for what you need to do for the day. Glance at your monthly calendar frequently to make sure you are staying on track.
Update, update, update
Make a note on your fridge calendar to update your life plan every 6 months. This includes looking back over and revising your goals, if necessary. Mark through and add to your action steps as needed. It only takes one day of intense preparation to make a life plan, but once you have yours in place, you will start to find all of the things you once thought were holding you back begin to fall away.