My name is shafi and I am 19 years old and I’m confused about life almost like every teenager. I get depressed, I struggle and I feel lost too, more often than anyone in my friend circle. I would rather say my teenage life was half good and half bad and there was my elder always by my side. he is the only person who I admire the most, almost my ideal.
I was always thinking that One person can have a lasting effect in on other decisions and the way people perceive a good life. There is one person who knows me the best, that has the most influence on my life. In my case, it is my brother who has prominently impacted my life from childhood. He has been there to support me in my many decisions because he knows almost everything, every time they were smart or foolish ones. It is due to my brother that I have now become more ambitious, I have become more responsible, and little bit attentive to my any kind of work and study. it is my brother who changed my thought, attitude perspective of life and a positive thinker.
I am not going write how my elder brother changed my thinking in my entire life but I am do going to write how I am dealing my university by my elder brother opinion. When I got admitted myself in east west university, I was super exited about my new varsity life, I was hanging around with my new friend going here and there joining club doing club activities but suddenly I was getting board with these place and people. I was not getting good marks in my class exam; my so call friend wasn’t helping that much and I was also getting annoyed some of my female friends because of their behaviors. in class presentation I had to face huge problem cause my teammate wasn’t that much attentive about the presentation so I had to do it all by myself, the main problem was my smartphone was broken and I have no computes so I have to research and make the presentation all by myself in varsity lab, so all things got me into trouble “,when I could take it anymore I was already to late to get out from those problems
I told my elder brother all of my problem then he thought how to behave with my varsity friend and also how to handle female friends. How much time do I have to give into my club activities and the most Impotent thing how to make my study routine and now I almost pretty much took care of my varsity problems alone. When I ask my elder brother how came your advice works one me a lot he replied when I was a teenage like you there was no to help me out with my problem and all those problems are almost same like your and I don’t want you to get into trouble. my brother thought me music, fashion, photography and how to measure life. he also thought me not smoke or drink and when and how to respect other problem even how dump it is. he has made me have an optimistic way of thinking, he knows what is best for me; therefore, I do not see him only as a brother, but also as a counselor.
So many people will say that this famous person change my thought and this and that but I would rather say there is no one like my brother “,he have shown me the right path and making sure I do not fall a victim to any bad intentions, making sure I always try my best in everything I partake in, and making sure I always strive for the better things in life and how to enjoy life .he is my mentor “,my teacher and my motivator and the most impotent thing he is my best friend .